I have four people on my team right now. One is exceptional at tier-3 troubleshooting and networking. He builds real trust with his clients. Put him in a strategic planning conversation, though, and he goes quiet. That's not a flaw. That's a specific person with a specific strength, and the job is to put that strength where it belongs.

Another one connects fast with people, digs into complex problems, and genuinely cares about client outcomes in a way you can't manufacture. He gets overly technical when he's trying to simplify things, talks in circles, and sometimes loses the room. Still one of the better people I've worked with, because he cares about the right thing and I can work around how he communicates.

A third is the most low-key person on the team. He sees the long view quickly, stays out of other people's lanes, and can talk to just about anyone without making it weird. His attention to detail drifts and things fall through. But his instincts on direction are usually right, and when you pair that with someone detail-oriented, you get something better than either of them alone.

The fourth has the most raw capability of anyone I've managed. Experienced across the board, technical, can talk to a CEO or a sysadmin with equal comfort, has built systems and processes from nothing. He's also been burned by too much change and too many undefined expectations in past roles. Right now the job isn't to extract that capability. The job is to give him a stable environment with clear deliverables and get out of the way while he decides whether he can trust this one.

If someone is better than you at something, why would you interfere with their capability?

That's the actual question, and most managers never ask it. They hire well and then immediately start filling in around the person, adjusting their approach, redirecting their instincts. The person they hired to be better at something specific never gets the chance, because the manager can't stop doing the thing they hired someone else to do.

My approach is straightforward. Tell them what the outcome needs to be, tell them when it needs to happen, give them the right processes and tools, and let them fill in the gaps through trial, error, and whatever guidance they ask for. I don't micromanage, and I don't have time for it. It would undercut the whole point of building the team I built.

That said, I do set up a temporary review step on certain deliverables early on. Not framed as oversight but as necessity, and sometimes it genuinely is, because of licensing or compliance requirements or client sensitivity. It gives me visibility while someone is finding their footing without making it feel like I'm watching every move. Once the pattern is established and I know how someone operates, that step goes away.

Mistakes happen. On my part too. When one surfaces, internally or from a client, we don't spend time on it longer than it takes to understand what happened and build a process that prevents it from repeating. One mistake is information and the same mistake twice is a process gap. Those are different problems and they get handled differently.

The old line is give someone enough rope and don't let them hang themselves. I think about it slightly differently. I give people the rope. When I see them starting to tie the wrong knot, I don't take the rope away. I show them a better knot through collaboration, not correction. Most of the time they were already figuring it out. They just needed someone willing to work it through with them rather than swoop in and solve it for them.

The team I have now isn't a team of people who are better than me at everything. It's a team of people who are better than me at specific things, and who are trusted to work those things without me in the middle. That's a meaningful difference, and it's the only version of this that actually works.